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maren tam | 3rd Aug 2011, 01:19 AM | 法律初階

離婚的理由 

        關於峰芝婚姻, 我一直想寫. 但我想寫的只是法律的觀點. (根據本人上過法律課後的皮毛知識, 若有錯漏, 請賜教.)

        報紙常說柏芝拖字訣, 不肯簽字離婚, 寫到好像一旦她簽字離婚, 他們明天就可以離婚. 其實婚姻哪有這麼兒戲.

        據內地報紙報道, "谢霆锋当时是在菲律宾小岛上,向张柏芝求婚。两人在菲律宾当地注册结婚。据了解,菲律宾是世界上仅有的几个“无离婚”国家,该国无离婚法,夫妻之间不能离婚,只允许分居。"

        我不太清楚菲律賓的婚姻法,但如果張柏芝與謝霆峰是本港人, 又長居香港, 他們若要離婚, 那是根據本地法例去處理的.

        唸過FAMILY LAW的人, 都應該背過「申辦離婚」的一大理由及五大因素.

        一大理由: 「婚姻已破裂至無法挽救」( "the marriage has irretrievably broken down") 

        五大因素(任擇其一):

  • adultery (通姦)

  • unreasonable behaviour (不合理的行為)

  • 在提出離婚呈請前,呈請人與配偶已分開居住最少連續1年,而其配偶也同意離婚

  • 在提出離婚呈請前,呈請人與配偶已分開居住最少連續2年。 (在這種情況下,無須配偶同意離婚。)

  • 在提出離婚呈請前,呈請人已遭配偶遺棄最少連續一年。

        法官要認為五大因素(其中之一)能達到一大理由的效果才會頒怖離婚.

        看一看峰芝戀, 他們不似有對方通姦的證據(我沒有看足娛樂報報紙, 不知道有沒有), 他們也不曾分居過1或2年, 他們其中一方也未被對方遺棄一年(因為他們今年被拍到一起出席金像獎呢...)

        那剩下的只有第2個因素, 即其中一方有不合理行為, 而我的老師說, 這是比較難以申請離婚的選項, 較常引用而成功的是暴力行為, 那柏芝跟陳冠希拍照會構成這宗罪嗎? 大概不會吧?! 通常律師會教clients用分居的方法去離婚, 但要對方同意配合講大話才可以(如果真的分居未夠1年的話), 但是峰芝的家居生活基本上是曝光在媒體上的, 他們並沒有分過居超過1年以上.

        即是說, 即使兩人都同意離婚, 但他們要至少分居1年以上才能簽字申請離婚的, 那謝霆峰發甚麼律師信叫張柏芝簽字離婚?

        又, 如果霆峰是以通姦/不合理行為申請與柏芝離婚, 他自己申請就可以, 不用柏芝簽字同意才能申請.

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撫養權

        兩個孩子的撫養權, 被娛樂新聞寫成你爭我奪的搶戰. 事實上, 一旦他們離婚, 不是拉姑或者四哥去決定的, 而是由法官大人去判決的, 而裁決的方向只有一個: 就是誰撫養孩子, 會對他們的成長最有利. 這裡包括經濟方面及照顧方面等等.

        普遍來說, 這麼年幼的孩子, 最大機會判給母親. 不過, 柏芝的紀錄十分惡劣 ---最近有人說她曾經想抱孩子輕生, 又不讓Lucas上學等等,  恐怕霆峰要爭孩子的話, 以這些作理由, 勝算會十分高.

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        看峰芝婚變, 仿如一套電視劇, 不知道明天Lucas會變成怎樣, 照樣在鎂光燈下生活? 有人說謝家兩代, 以至可能未來第三代, 都餵飽香港幾代娛記, 及觀眾, 怎不有點唏噓... 不過, 家事法庭與其他法庭不同, 聆訊是保密的. 那麼, 至少在離婚的時候, 他們可以在鎂光燈下歇息一下, 不用chok樣對住法官吧. 

 


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[引用] | 作者 maren | 12th Aug 2011 20:37 PM | [舉報垃圾留言]

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請問,你的中學是否在延文禮士道的?


[引用] | 作者 S | 12th Aug 2011 11:30 AM | [舉報垃圾留言]

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re molly - 正是如此, 而且這消息不管是誰放料, 的確有個女人接受訪問時講的, 有人證.


[引用] | 作者 maren | 11th Aug 2011 00:47 AM | [舉報垃圾留言]

[7] 峰芝婚变

不管发生天大的事,孩子是无辜的,如果曾经想伤害孩子的妈妈那就不是有责任感的妈妈。一个情绪不正常的人对孩子成长很危险。法官一定要考虑清楚。


[引用] | 作者 molly | 10th Aug 2011 01:32 AM | [舉報垃圾留言]

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Hi Maren, I agree that will be an important factor, if this is the fact. I just don't know if it is the fact or a rumor that the husband deliberately leaked to the media (yes, I believed he is the one who leaks to Ms Cha and has his mom takes the blames). It appears that there are conflicting stories on the news everyday.

One thing that seems very consistent in all the stories about Cecilia is that she love her families and takes care her little brothers almost like her sons. I love my brothers a lot too so I always feel we have something in common. I just think people who love their brothers and sisters (not just by talk but also by action) just can't be that bad to her kids.


[引用] | 作者 eva | 5th Aug 2011 01:24 AM | [舉報垃圾留言]

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HI EVA,
我明白在職母親的苦處,
但一個母親無論如何悉心照顧孩子, 假若她曾想過抱孩子輕生(仲要話俾人知,有證人), 以及不讓孩子上學. 從法官的角度來看, 都絕不會是好母親...


[引用] | 作者 maren | 5th Aug 2011 00:26 AM | [舉報垃圾留言]

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PS. She actually stops making movies for couple years after the kids are born. But when the news of the divorce broke, the media keeps focusing on how she made less than Nicholas in the last few year, as if she is being lazy... I just can't blame her for wanting to go back to work so she can give her own money to her own family without getting the ugly 貼外家 labels.


[引用] | 作者 eva | 4th Aug 2011 05:48 AM | [舉報垃圾留言]

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Hi Maren, I have a 2 years old and I also work full time. It is hard to keep a balance between spending time with your kid and having a career. I live in US and there are a lot of full time daycare (6am - 6pm) available which I can be trusted to keep my child learning and engaged all day long. But I heard from my cousin this kind of daycare are not available in HK and so everyone is relying on the home helpers who may not know the best about taking care of the kid. As much as I love my daughter, I wish I don't need to take her with me everywhere it goes ... I love her but it is quite tiring to take a little kid everywhere with you... I think the media sounds like 柏芝 wants to take Lucas everywhere just for fun while I think most moms can tell you it is not that fun. Give her some credit for wanting to spend time with the kid.


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[引用] | 作者 maren | 4th Aug 2011 00:55 AM | [舉報垃圾留言]

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